"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Starting out Advice...???

godjwood

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So this girl i've been hanging out with we both agree we want to start something but take it slow and see where it goes and how it goes.

She doesn't wanna rush into anything and neither do i, just had bad experiences with rushing into things, same for her.

So on Dec. 27th i'm going to Europe and coming back on Jan. 15th and last night in my drunken wisdom i tried to explain to her i didn't want her to fyck around while i was in Europe if we're gonna be anything. What's a great way of explaining this without pissing her off and her getting the wrong impression???

Also what's a great way to take things slow and not jump into things???


~Thanx
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Logen

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i have no idea how to slow down the sexual progress. i tend to focus on how to speed it up. :eek:
 

lets_do_this

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I... WTF.

I dont know man, honestly.

I study stuff on here only to speed up the process.

It's usually a girl's line to "take things slow".
 
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