"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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starting college tommorrow

Yakovinho

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ok so im back to this forum after a year... and im going to college tommorrow, any body would suggest me how to act/bbehave on my first day?
i dont really know anybody.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ElStud

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I say your first year talk to people and stuff, yeah, but also concentrate on your grades; college is no joke. Take it from me, all I did was party and talk to people my first year and I didn't get that good of grades. So yeah, socialize, but concentrate on your grades too.
 

Allurre

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First day? I remember it 4 years ago...

1. Be friendly, social, and level yourself with everyone. Don't treat others as more superior or as a subordinate. These are people you'll be bumping into for the four years, or more.

2. Relax, it's the first day. NO need to impress anyone, or your professor.

3. Introduce yourself, and have a sincere desire to get to know people.
 

mtlwlu

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yep, its super easy to meet people in college, just turn to the girl and introduce yourself and ask where theyre from bonus if you know something about that town if you dont I use the line "I never heard of it, whats the best thing about it?" chances are it will trigger warm feelings since theyre away from home to and someone is trying to get to know them and their town. Then just go from there, should work.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rounder

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Remember that people probably won't remember what you said but they will remember how you made them feel.
 

youngstud

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Try to get to your class a couple minutes early, and get to know a few people socially before class its a great way to start conversation with " are you in psyc 210 as well", or really anything along that lines and of course introduce yourself. Its a great way to break the ice, plus if you ever have to do work with a partner or a group in the class you will already know people and be able to be more comfortable.
 
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