"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Starting college on monday, Help?

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DubstepGuy

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Like the title says, i start college on monday.
I missed the first week which was the icebreaking week and what-not, i was supposed to do a different course but ended up doing the one i'm going to do now.
Anyways, I'm not scared but nervous. How should i act? How should i carry myself? What do i say when i walk into the room full of class mates? How should i talk? What about rapport, how do i make friends fast?
Sorry for all the questions, i really don't wanna be like i was in high school xD
(bearing in mind, i don't care much about the girls at the moment.)

*posted this in the Don Juan Discussion too*
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NorwegianDJ

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Here's a couple of sources that I'm sure will help you.

Mandatory reading for any freshman: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/69410

A model to follow for getting girls in college. Note that this guy went to UG or UGA. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/135273

I'm sure you've read www.collegeflirt.net. Sadly Alex sold it though.

Also we've started another site devoted to High School / College, www.highschool-game.net, which is definitely worth checking out.

Oh, and if you need to make a fake ID: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/170393
 
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What you will soon discover: Some people are cooler than you. In fact, a lot of them are. It can be discouraging, but remember that many of them are older, and have been around the block a few times.

Find a wing that seems better than you in some ways, maybe worse in another. Push hard to improve your social situation, get the girls at your level (be honest but dont underestimate yourself) keep your door always open, literally and via phone invitations.
 
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Best advice from my experience would be to be friends with EVERYBODY!!! And by everybody I mean from the shy guy in your bio class, to the frat guys, to the jocks, to the lunch lady and the lady that cleans the bathroom because you know what? I guarantee you that they are going to do you a favor at some point in the future. They are either going to invite you to parties, help with homework, or slip you that extra piece of chicken on the lunch line.

Pretty soon what will happen you'll yourself gaining access into different circles because you have made friends with everybody. And people will look at you and be like "Wow, he's friends with the jocks, frats and even the lunch lady blushes when he says hi? He must be something"

You'll get introduced to more girls and girls will take notice of you. So in conclusion..............BE FRIENDS WITH EVERYBODY!!!!
 
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