"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Starting College in 2 weeks. Tips please!!!

suaveplayer

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Hey guys so im starting college soon. any tips for how to make the most out of this time as possible? well for starters im planning on being as social as possible, which was not always the case with me in high school/.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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theunflushables

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Yes be as social as possible, but also balance yourself. I went in to college the same way. Not very social in High School and overboard in college. I flunked out after the second year. Make the best out of your education or you will find yourself at 27 unemployed and just going back to school. Best of luck to you!
 

Allurre

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Grow your own circle of friends.

Stop worrying about getting girls.

It's about expanding your social network.

Get out there, and become fun, knowledgeable, mature
guy to get to know.

The rest will follow.
 

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DO NOT worry if you are not getting "f-closes" the first 3 days!

I worried. And I paid for it, in various ways..

Have fun. But do not expect college to be like American Pie movies. What university are you going to?
 

Kevin Feng

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Hey guys so im starting college soon. any tips for how to make the most out of this time as possible? well for starters im planning on being as social as possible, which was not always the case with me in high school/.


First things first, join a frat, it’ll give you more social status, and a great place to party. Pledging is a bit of a *****, but believe me, it’s DEFINITELY worth the investment.

I mean think about it, you’ll literally have girls coming to your house and getting drunk right before you, I mean jesus Christ.

As far as “Dates” and day 2’s go, they won’t be as prevalent in a college environment, at least not in my experience, going to parties and hooking up is usually how it happens.

Anyways, join a frat and go to more parties, you won’t go wrong there.

-Kevin
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you're gonna live in a dorm, get ready for a lot of drama. Every little thing you do, everyone'll know about it. This is because freshmen who live in dorms have no life. All they do is stay in their rooms and smoke weed all day so they're obsessed with every bit of drama they hear about. Get a hobby and you'll be separated from all the other losers there.
LOL, what college do you go to? I've stayed at dorms and what you said is the farthest thing from the truth. People in college do not give one flying sh!t about anything you do. As long as you aren't some obnoxious a-hole you will have nothing to worry about. The kids who stay in their rooms all day to smoke weed will flunk out eventually.

Don't make your social life a priority in school. You should concern yourself with getting good marks and working a little bit on the side. Be social but don't overdo it.
 
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