Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Starting Business

WORKEROUTER

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Me and a buddy are starting our own moving business. For those of you who have business experience, have any tips or suggestions? Any pitfalls to avoid?

The goal, of course, is to make our business an "assett" and eventually be hiring people, and simply managing it, and thus "making money work for us," as Kiyosaki puts it.

Blatantly stated, I am tired of working for measly wages in someone else's business, barely scrap by to pay next month's rent, and make other people wealthy. It amazes me how many people are COMFORTABLE doing this and then start b*tching and whining about how the "system" f*cks everyone!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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diablo

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The first thing that comes to my mind is that you should set your business up as a LLC... otherwise, if it's just "You and your buddy's moving service" what's going to happen is you'll invariably scratch or damage something, or set something against the truck and have it fall on someone, then be sued into personal bankruptcy. So, either get insurance for this sort of thing or turn yourself into a limited liability corporation - all of the above will cost money, but thats just a price of doing business that I'm sure you've already looked at...
 

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get ready to work your asses off and do 99.9% of the legwork for the next couple years.
 

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You're definitely on the right track. For sure think about incorporating or doing an LLC.
 

cave dweller

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LLC....

Hey,

Research it and start a LLC.......

One lawsuit could wipe you both out, otherwise.

ie..... a customer or a worker trips and falls---it is all over.

my 2 cents

cave dweller
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alpine

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You need detailed, quality advice. Many cities have business workshops, these are great and will instantly give you a network too.

Other than that, have a really good reason WHY you are doing it, it will drag you through the rough times.

I would do some sole searching about your current reason.

Is it not fair to say there are lots of employed people who are well paid? Did you know there are LOTS of self employed people who work 80+ hrs a week and are on less than minimum wage/hr?


Good Luck.
 

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Workerouter - I went from an unhappy "corporate wage slave" to someone who's doing rather well financially.

But the business I'm in was something part-time that I built up while working for someone else - taking advantage of the employer-paid health benefits, 401K, vacation time, etc.

There's some statistic about business failures - it sounds alarming, but it's inflated by many factors including business owners simply selling their enterprise, or closing a successful one down to try another.

I believe it's also inflated by people who just suddenly say, "hey, I'm tired of working for someone else," exit their job and immediately open up this new business, one which they have no experience with, no gameplan for, and not much financing, either.
 
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