"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Starting a New Relationship, how to keep it from not bein boring.....

YoungSir4sho

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Iight so here's the details first. I messaged this girl from a website sat nite. Talked to her like 3 times on their got her number. Sunday afternoon I call her. We talk fo like 3 hours. SHe keeps sayin that she is shy at first wit every1 n den I kept sayin dat I would break her shyness ez. Then I kept makin her laugh on the phone n kept callin me conceited while jokin n i kept sayin nah its jus confidence. Eventually she says she has 5 KIDS. YEA N SHE IS ONLY 22 YEARS OLD...

Newayz, i make a date wit her lata on that nite for 10pm. We chill n go to manhattan fo da movies. Saw superbad movie n not alot of ppl was in there. Finally like 20min b4 the movie finishes I put my hand between her legs, a min after she closes it while my hand is between her legs lol. Felt good. I shouldve went for the kiss then but I didnt.


After the movie is over we walk to central park, during this time she was sayin that she bored. O n she was usin her sidekick alot cuz she said dats her life(her sidekick) so we sat down. In my head I was gonna ask her out( all of this was like 3am in da morning) but i didnt. She then said lets walk aroun instead of stayin at one place she we walked n b4 we left central park I asked her out n said do u wanna b my girl. Her first answer was I dont kno. Then I asked her again after 5sec n she said that would b nice but Im already alil bored. Then I asked her 1 more time on all seriousness if she wants to give us a chance on our relationship n for her to b my girl n she said yes and then we kissed for like 5seconds. Meanwhile while we walkin we hold hands n stuff like that.

So usually im funny wit her but alot of times we get these silent moments but once we start talkin on a good topic we can talk fo a long time. Newayz we finally get on the train at 5am n i felt like i had to take her home or at least to her train stop since she lives in bk so when we went in da train I asked her do u want me to stay her wit u da whole time or leave halfway. She said Its up to me. So i firgued I would stay n drop her off. SO did that got a goodnite kiss den went bac home.



Now the problem is how do i get from not gettin silence moments thru our conversations. I havent called her this whole day but jus texted her 2hours ago sayin i would call her soon. She responded wit its all good n wateva. So im bout to call rite now.

Wat subjects or topics should I use n wat does this mean when a girl says im bored. Yet y would she go out wit me?? Lets see wat happens. Wat fun things i should do???
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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YoungSir4sho

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So I just called her 30 min ago. She didnt pick up. I texted her sayin dat jus called n when u aint busy call ur man bac. She texted me 10min lata sayin she was at Eb Games chillin waitin fo dat halo3 ish wit her bro(her bro works there plus they got that game comin out on midnite). SO i texted her bac sayin "Lol so thats da reason y u couldnt pick up lmao,get at me wheneva u aint busy then". She texts me bac 5min lata sayin " Yea wateva maybe lol"

So now im jus sayin to myself F da drama, she got 5kids. She domincan,she looks good but I jus feel its not worth da drama. So I guess she was my girl fo a day lol. I mean if she calls me tom or wateva den i'll still talk to her but otha den that IM not gonna call her or text her no-more cuz i can feel that its gonna b alot of drama. Wat do u ppl think?
 

YoungSir4sho

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Yea at first I didnt believe it but it is tru. Kind of sad really Lol. So im not gonna call her or text her no more. If she calls me or text me then I'll still talk n try to see if she wants to chill again soon but otha then that I dont think im gonna waste my time on her
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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5 kids doesn't mean run.

It means sprint full-speed ahead and don't look back, and jump into any moving vehicle in the opposite direction.
 

YoungSir4sho

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Lol good lookin out fo ur advice ppl. Newayz the relationship is done. WE texted each otha n its done. O well.... On to approaching alot of girls lata on today
 
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