“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Starting a New Don Juan Boot Camp Working Group | Wanna join?

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The Mayor

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Hi everybody

I'm trying to start Don Juan Boot Camp Working Group.

This is my first post, I have read some articles on this forum for about a year ago, I have read books on this subject and viewed hours of video. Have I gotten any result? Well, yes I have. But the problem is that they are very few and in the last couple of month I have lived a very dry life.
I think I have pinpointed my problem, and I think it is twofold.

1. I have not structured my learning; one day I read about c/f, then about confidence, skipping to conversations techniques... You get the picture.

2. I do 95% reading and 5% applying.

What I have decided to do, to overcome those problems, is to take the complete course called "Don Juan Boot Camp" and to do it effectively it would help to write about what I'm doing. But instead of sharing my progress, or lag of it, with everybody and nobody I've decided to start a working group of, say, 4 guys who have the same goal as I do.

Here is what I propose, we start Monday the 2. December and the weeks goes from Monday to Sunday.

Who can join?
Not everybody.
I do not care much for racists or proclaimed criminals, like gang members.
But what is important is that you have full commitment to finishing the boot camp, doing all the exercises, reading and commenting the other members posts and writing posts yourself.
I don't care about age, looks, education, origin or job.

Before you answer please read the first 15 pages of.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
I think this is the newest ed. of the boot camp.

If you want to join, please write a little about yourself and why you want to join.

A little about me.
I'm 24 years, I'm studying at a university and I'm from Denmark.

Good luck
The Mayor
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maxtro

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I'm considering starting the boot camp but not until I'm out of school for the semester. By then I'll have more time and hopefully my own place.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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j0n024

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Fvck it I'll join I never really did the bootcamp anyways, I just went out there and used what I learned here and got a crash course in DJ'ng lol.
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MALE lol
 
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mongolboy

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Les do it, got nothing else to do anyways might as well do a lil self analysis and better myself and i think this is a great oppurtunity right here and i know i can be successful!
Mongolboy=commited tell me what to do!
 
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The Inside Man

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I would join except I'm already a racist, proclaimed criminal, and also a gang member. shucks!























just kidding.
 
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j0n024

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I already did the first 2 weeks of BC, I am starting on the rejecting lol. I think it would be easier to just go for the number close for me since I am a little more confident. Good luck other guy's that are joining up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Brad Starr

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I'd like to be a part of this please.

Discovered this place fairly recently and this is my first post.

I was planning to begin the Boot Camp tomorrow and was going to follow old threads on it but this has come along at the perfect time for me.

I am 19 years old from the UK and I have a job which requires me to be supremely confident. However, I am totally pathetic with girls and after discovering this site (and the definition of an AFC!) I realised exactly what I have been doing wrong.

I would like to become a Don Juan and the Boot Camp seems like a great starting place and, at the very least, looks like it could be fun, especially if I'm going to be taking it with other guys in this thread!

So please count me in! :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've looked though the pdf file and all that and think that I'm going to give it a try because it seems like a fun and productive exercise at exorcising the problems of Approach Anxiety.

However, I've failed other bootcamps and have consistently conked out so I'm not entirely sure if I'll be able to reach the finish line on this, but intend to follow through on it's instructions.

I've tried basically low-key exercises so far, such us doing outings or doing functional approaches (functional approaches means asking for date, time, directions, where an item is located, as a premise for approaching (even though I dont really need to ask) whether conciously or subconciously motivated) and have engaged in talk at people at my office and sort of am in the mode of gradual exercises and acclimation.

Anyway, I think it's a good idea and may try it out anyway.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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