"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Starting A Conversation With A Girl

dvdbvn

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Hello Folks

I was wondering how do you start a interesting convo with a girl that is virtually failsafe way to get her talking?

I have tried things like Tell me something about yourself?
Sometimes this has worked but on other occasions women seem to know where this will lead. Thank you
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LionOne

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There isn't some one liner to start interesting convo, it all depends on the situation. I'm situationally relevant. That's the key. Then I have major topics where I can direct the conversation into and make it good. It's just process of vibing between topics and good stories you have.

Don't say "tell me something about yourself", she will be confused and maybe not wanting to tell you anything. It's YOU who must tell first something about yourself. Then she will relate to that and you can continue to tell how you feel about that/story/bust her/ask more/qualify/game any other way her. It's easy, just be first to open up. Sometimes you may run into girls who has nothing to say on your topics.. Then just bust the hell out of them with c&f and keep qualifying them.
 

Chosen1

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There is so may ways to start a converation it's rediculous. I like to comment on something I noticed about her. Also you can ask their opinion. I like to ask question like why are you working here. Or ask them why we don't ever talk. Pick up the art of approaching there is good stuff in that and I got mine for free.
 

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just say "hey chica, u like to drink?" it works 60% of the time it works every time bro.
 
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