"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Master Don Juan
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Hey guys
I was thinking, we rookie DJ's sometimes can't find any motivation but I was thinking(believe it or not :D) that like sports, competion can be a good motivation. We should start some sort of contest or something.
Everybody who signs in has to approach unknown 10 girls in one day. 5 of these girls you just gotta say hi to, 3 you gotta have a REAL conversation with and you got to get 2 girls numbers. You have to do it in one day, if you take two or more days you gotta try again.
Also nothing lower than HB6 :) , we should have a good game then. Now that you start to freeze you know that you're not the only person trying but lacks some confidence, what might work motivating. So just think "I'm not alone on this one" and go for the kill :D.

Anybody wanna join the "Quest" Reply, and when you got succes, tell us about it and then lets all try something harder :D
Strenght and honor mates (BTW i'm in too:p ):rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hmmm perhaps youre right,
theres just a problem of time...

ow well fvck time just gotta do this quick and painfull then. I'm doing the bootcamp :D
 
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