"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Snap87

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Sup guys, i just started to lift weights. i have a question. Is it ok to do only 4 reps and 7 sets on bench pressing? I get pretty tired after 4 reps and rest about 3 minutes before doing another 4. Or is it too heavy? I am currently benching 105 pounds :D If it is too heavy, tell me how i should work that out.




THANKS!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jiza101

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It all depends on how much you can lift. I think 7 sets on just bench press is overkill. Your chest has 2 parts, i recomend doing 3 sets flat bench, 2 sets incline dumbell press, and 1 set of decline bench. That way you hit every part of your chest. As for reps, start with 8 then move down to 6 to 4 increasing the weight after each set.:cheer:
 

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It all depends, what kind of goals are you going for, want to bulk and gain weight, and size, then do warmup sets, like a weight that is easy to do for 10, a couple of those then do a 2 sets of 10, 2 sets of 8, and 2 sets of 6. If your going for strength and trying to tighten, tone the muscle for strength and power, do 2 sets of 5, 2 sets of 3, and a set of 2 and a set of 1. But a method I use, is have 3 different bench workouts, 50 reps over 5 sets, 25 reps over 5 sets, or 12 reps over 5 sets, space them however you want, but make suer that the last rep of each set is hard, and you can barely get it up on the last one. Just alternate each one of those routines to get a all around workout. But mix in some dumbell flies, incline and stuff too after that, and especially triceps.
 
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