"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Started to get ruthless with the women...

Fatal Jay

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Ok when it comes to me getting the girls number, if they text, and don't reply back within a day, I delete them no matter how hot they are, should I do this, maybe I'm missing out?

But I got this attitude now that I don't give a fu@k, tells me a lot when a girl is not ampt up about me texting her cause I'm the prize she is not.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alvafe

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if you still get womans after you don't see the problem :)
 

georgetheman

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Not necessarily a bad attitude

Lack of interest on one side is a major cause of dating/relationship troubles youre weeding out ones that are a waste of your time
 

VladPatton

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I do the same. No reply, no problem. Deleted...with pleasure. Fųck em.
 
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