So long story short I was deep in love with this one chick and got absolutely nothing out of it and today I felt great and started talking to women (Not something I'm great at but fvck it) Anyway I met this chick at my local subway who is new. She was making my sandwhich and I just struck up convo. I joked that she was new and I asked how long and that I remember her from last time... anyway she told me and immediately continues the convo asking about my shirt (logo of my gym) she asked where it was blah blah blah and then talked about how she wants to start working out because she didn't have anyone to go with so I told her to find someone. She said she is nervous to go and asks instead what I did. I told her my routine, she rang me up, I bounced. I didn't feel the need to ask her out then because this is my subway that I go to often. She's about a 5 or 6 wears a ****ton of makeup and has a ring on her right finger. This is also near a military base so I kinda got that dependa vibe. Suggestions anyone? I plan on going back and asking her for her number to send her an invite to my gym.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Started talking to women after ONEits
- Thread starter Going4it
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Bro honestly it depends on your morals. I would never have sex with a married woman. And a ****ton of makeup is also mad nasty! But if you don't mind having sec with the generals wife and don't mind the makeup. DO IT! Also talk to all girls you are attracted to because it will allow you to pick and choose who you want to ask out. And then you could leave the married ones out of the question