"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Started dating this HS chick

verysuave

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Iam 24 she's 18 and still in HS. I never really dated when I was HS, but one thing i've noticed is that, as far as this HS chick goes, she likes to fight/argue with me alot. She would say things like "oh, how come you didn't say hi to me"
"im mad at you" etc etc

she'd become a total *****.

Wel,, probably, because I ignored her for 1 week. LOL.

Is this how your High School girl is? was?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vypros

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That's how about 80% of them are man.

You're 24 years old, you shouldn't even think about dating anyone under 21 anymore.

Sleeping with her is one thing, but dating? Hell no.
 

verysuave

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the sad thing is, im still a virgin. I'd like to start with someone the same level as me at least..

I have no experience at all!!! i hope you understand that. No kissing, no nothing.
 

Redux

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verysuave said:
the sad thing is, im still a virgin. I'd like to start with someone the same level as me at least..

I have no experience at all!!! i hope you understand that. No kissing, no nothing.
Here prolly every girl that is 18 is not a virgin anymore.
Anyways, if she is an experience, then good, treat her as such. Take risks, and learn.
 

The Shocker

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Every single one of them is like that. Fvck her ASAP or find someone better.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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