"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I've already started the bootcamp a few years ago, but I never made it through. I lied to myself that there were more important things and forgot about my goals set for the bootcamp. I wouldnt say that I'm one of the hopeless guys - getting no woman at no time, but I'm very sure I'm far away from what is possible for me.

Besides, I have a job which takes much time, so the only way of practicing will mainly be in my every-day life.

I think one reason for my failed first try is that I never posted my results. That is why I make this one here official!

I call it the Boot Camp 2009 Awesome Edition :cool:
Hope you guys can help me out when I get to a sticking point and be kicking my ass when I start being lazy :moon:

Thanks in advance!
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So today I made myself through the first excercises. The ECs are not the problem. Although, at the beginning, I noticed that I looked away automatically when some guys walked towards me. I had to force myself to look them directly in the eyes.

Today I only got 15 Hi's, I know it's already a week ago when I started week 1, but today is the first day I could go out in the field by myself to test the excercises.

Many times I thought to myself - why the heck should some Hi's to some stranger guys help me getting laid ?? And also I thought it must be weird to hear a Hi - or Good evening - from a total stranger. But that feeling quickly disappeared when I continued with the Hi's. Many people reacted positively. Tomorrow I gonna end that and post the results. Hope it's okay to continue with week 2 after 9 Days ;-) The good point about that is, that I start with week 2 on Thursday (as recommended)

Good evening guys !
 

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Hey guys,

today I had almost NO time for going out. The only times I made a few Hi´s were when I went to a backery to get breakfirst and when I went to restaurant for dinner. I had to work on a presentation the whole day - until 10pm. Besides, it's blizzaring cold out there - so walking through the city for hours would be suicide.

My Hi's count 25 today. Tomorrow I have to make some more - but it is difficult to take much time for going into the city only for the excercise. Maybe it's better to make the bootcamp at a time,when there is more space ?

Hope I can report a more successfull day tomorrow evening.

Good Night
 
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