Ive decided that i need to change some things with my life. and im just going to have to grab myself by the balls and do them.
Summary of myself
appearance wise i stand 5'9 159 pounds husky. i lift but theres a little fat but w/e
im a senior in high school
im a virgin and never have had a gf
i just got over my oneitis
problems...
1. i only have 4 school classes i have an early day. less opportunities to meet girls i can talk to. i dont have a job (dad said cant work till i grad cas itl interfere so dum...) duno where to get more opportunities.
2. i have some good friends but i dont have like a million and i cant just hook up with girls via friends at this point. the whole high school thing sucks.
3. i have little experience obv
4. i need to improve my convo skills. increase my web of things i can talk about
so in short i dont have lots of opportunities i need to find a way to make them. i need to make more friends which would help. and i need to get more experience with girls.
i have a list of girls i might be able to talk to possibly do something with.
1. this girl i had in a class last semester works at the ymca. shes a hb 7 i guess. she recognizes me everytime i come in and gives me locker keys. she innitiated a good sized convo with me about classes.
1st period of school sucks the teacher wont let talking allowed much. the seating has me isolated from the hot ones. i hate it.
2. girl first period i talked to. hb 8. she has a bf. but i noticed her at best buy and she noticed me so it wasnt a stalker thing. i innitated convo we talked about what we were doing at best buy and car stereos. and i had not talked to her all year. i sat next to her in an auditorium assembly we were having.
3. girl in first period hb 6 she basicly was in our class group and talked to us alot.
2cnd is a little better. im kinda close to some but the teacher dominates the class. its an interesting class tho. i can talk to girls in and out of periods tho. and to increase self values. we create topics every day and read them to the class so if i did something really creative,funny, w/e i could innitiate convos.
4. 2cnd period. hb 8 big slut, very popular. i talked to her once cas i had her in a class before. she seems friendly but i duno no previous interest.
5. 2cnd period hb 6-7 very quiet sits right in front of me never said anything. very soft voice. like dead silent.
theres also like 2 other good looking chicks in that class.
3rd period there is more opp to talk cas before we take notes there is time. we play games in that class. we stand in line to grade our math papers so time for convo there.
6. 3rd period hb9 not likely cas surrounded by big jocks. i had gum once and she begged me for it. i might be able to innitiate convo.
7. 3rd and 4th period girl i have in that class and now that new semester got in another class. might be able to mention new classes maybe not. hb 7. she seems quiet but wears unique boots i could comment upon.
8. 3rd period hb7 girl i had in a class in the past duno if its possible tho.
4th is a really laid back class but my oneitis is in that class..
9. 4th period my oneitis's best friend. duno if this is a good idea. i find her attractive tho hb 7.5. she tried to talk to me on the internet alot in the past on myspace so while that doesnt tell me anything atleast she wanted to talk to me.
10. back to 1st forgot one. noticed a rly hot girl ive never had contact with hb 9 duno anything about her tho.
11. oneitis hb used to be 10 now 0. i went out with her twice. first time she wanted to go to dinner and was her doing. then i asked her out and did then asked her out again then she changed heart and blew me off and told me i should go for other girls and she wanted me to tell her who she liked and shed try to get me with them. i didnt reply. now im not going to lunch with her, texting her, doing anything with her. but shes in my class which is very akward for me when im in the ignoring state of mind...
12. a girl i had last semester. shes really popular. she was rly quiet in that class tho. i broke the ice at the end of the quarter and for the last week we talked a good amount. then when we visited a party didnt acutally party at one but we visited one she was there and was rly drunk and out of it. i could talk about that. the only way i can talk to her is via myspace now tho and its been like 2-3 weeks. my dude friend is also friends with her so i duno.
13. my dude friend might hook me up with a chick that he said might be a good first gf for me. from what i saw she looked pretty hb 7-7.5
As for cold approaches. i tried at a dance once... dances in high school suck tho cas girls dont go there to get laid they go there with friends or dates.
1. one girl i asked if she wanted to dance she was like no i walked off.
2. there was a group of good looking girls i danced in the middle stupidly. it was good but got me no where cas we moved on.
3.there was a hotty dancing by herself i grabbed her hips but it might have been creepy tho i duno. she kinda danced away and i saw another dude coming so i just peaced.
4. a girl danced with me randomly. she went to some other dude that might of been her date tho.. lol
the concept of cold approaches frightens me but if i had to i would at the mall i guess.
so thats the whole thing i have planned out any feed back/motivation is appreciated. ill keep posts every once in awhile to update progress.
aim is snidyy if you feel like coaching me lol.
Summary of myself
appearance wise i stand 5'9 159 pounds husky. i lift but theres a little fat but w/e
im a senior in high school
im a virgin and never have had a gf
i just got over my oneitis
im willing to do whatever it takes or die trying and thats not possible so **** it. i just need a plan. and good feedback from this board to motivate me.
problems...
1. i only have 4 school classes i have an early day. less opportunities to meet girls i can talk to. i dont have a job (dad said cant work till i grad cas itl interfere so dum...) duno where to get more opportunities.
2. i have some good friends but i dont have like a million and i cant just hook up with girls via friends at this point. the whole high school thing sucks.
3. i have little experience obv
4. i need to improve my convo skills. increase my web of things i can talk about
so in short i dont have lots of opportunities i need to find a way to make them. i need to make more friends which would help. and i need to get more experience with girls.
i have a list of girls i might be able to talk to possibly do something with.
1. this girl i had in a class last semester works at the ymca. shes a hb 7 i guess. she recognizes me everytime i come in and gives me locker keys. she innitiated a good sized convo with me about classes.
1st period of school sucks the teacher wont let talking allowed much. the seating has me isolated from the hot ones. i hate it.
2. girl first period i talked to. hb 8. she has a bf. but i noticed her at best buy and she noticed me so it wasnt a stalker thing. i innitated convo we talked about what we were doing at best buy and car stereos. and i had not talked to her all year. i sat next to her in an auditorium assembly we were having.
3. girl in first period hb 6 she basicly was in our class group and talked to us alot.
2cnd is a little better. im kinda close to some but the teacher dominates the class. its an interesting class tho. i can talk to girls in and out of periods tho. and to increase self values. we create topics every day and read them to the class so if i did something really creative,funny, w/e i could innitiate convos.
4. 2cnd period. hb 8 big slut, very popular. i talked to her once cas i had her in a class before. she seems friendly but i duno no previous interest.
5. 2cnd period hb 6-7 very quiet sits right in front of me never said anything. very soft voice. like dead silent.
theres also like 2 other good looking chicks in that class.
3rd period there is more opp to talk cas before we take notes there is time. we play games in that class. we stand in line to grade our math papers so time for convo there.
6. 3rd period hb9 not likely cas surrounded by big jocks. i had gum once and she begged me for it. i might be able to innitiate convo.
7. 3rd and 4th period girl i have in that class and now that new semester got in another class. might be able to mention new classes maybe not. hb 7. she seems quiet but wears unique boots i could comment upon.
8. 3rd period hb7 girl i had in a class in the past duno if its possible tho.
4th is a really laid back class but my oneitis is in that class..
9. 4th period my oneitis's best friend. duno if this is a good idea. i find her attractive tho hb 7.5. she tried to talk to me on the internet alot in the past on myspace so while that doesnt tell me anything atleast she wanted to talk to me.
10. back to 1st forgot one. noticed a rly hot girl ive never had contact with hb 9 duno anything about her tho.
11. oneitis hb used to be 10 now 0. i went out with her twice. first time she wanted to go to dinner and was her doing. then i asked her out and did then asked her out again then she changed heart and blew me off and told me i should go for other girls and she wanted me to tell her who she liked and shed try to get me with them. i didnt reply. now im not going to lunch with her, texting her, doing anything with her. but shes in my class which is very akward for me when im in the ignoring state of mind...
12. a girl i had last semester. shes really popular. she was rly quiet in that class tho. i broke the ice at the end of the quarter and for the last week we talked a good amount. then when we visited a party didnt acutally party at one but we visited one she was there and was rly drunk and out of it. i could talk about that. the only way i can talk to her is via myspace now tho and its been like 2-3 weeks. my dude friend is also friends with her so i duno.
13. my dude friend might hook me up with a chick that he said might be a good first gf for me. from what i saw she looked pretty hb 7-7.5
As for cold approaches. i tried at a dance once... dances in high school suck tho cas girls dont go there to get laid they go there with friends or dates.
1. one girl i asked if she wanted to dance she was like no i walked off.
2. there was a group of good looking girls i danced in the middle stupidly. it was good but got me no where cas we moved on.
3.there was a hotty dancing by herself i grabbed her hips but it might have been creepy tho i duno. she kinda danced away and i saw another dude coming so i just peaced.
4. a girl danced with me randomly. she went to some other dude that might of been her date tho.. lol
the concept of cold approaches frightens me but if i had to i would at the mall i guess.
so thats the whole thing i have planned out any feed back/motivation is appreciated. ill keep posts every once in awhile to update progress.
aim is snidyy if you feel like coaching me lol.
