"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Stark Reality off members i have oneitis

derby1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2017
Messages
3,242
Reaction score
3,400
as above although ive been better recently with my behaviour i must have made my wife(split) feel top off the hill by chasing and pursuing

after some home truths by replies on here ive had to get my **** together mentaly
I already date and work out

i didnt look at it specifically as "the one" i was looking at it more as a man frantically trying to sort the family unit we had that was generally happy, and where the hell has it got me

then it dawned on me she hasnt given a flying FK about this not once has she spoke like an adult or mentioned trying to sort the family we had... validate her and she bks off for weeks

she sniffed i was seeing someone else and she was round my house like a scalded cat trying to reconcile

her behaviours disgraceful she hasnt reflected on what shes done wrong at all i presume she hasnt had to with me chasing her

flatlined
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Top