"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stark Reality off members i have oneitis

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as above although ive been better recently with my behaviour i must have made my wife(split) feel top off the hill by chasing and pursuing

after some home truths by replies on here ive had to get my **** together mentaly
I already date and work out

i didnt look at it specifically as "the one" i was looking at it more as a man frantically trying to sort the family unit we had that was generally happy, and where the hell has it got me

then it dawned on me she hasnt given a flying FK about this not once has she spoke like an adult or mentioned trying to sort the family we had... validate her and she bks off for weeks

she sniffed i was seeing someone else and she was round my house like a scalded cat trying to reconcile

her behaviours disgraceful she hasnt reflected on what shes done wrong at all i presume she hasnt had to with me chasing her

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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