"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm sitting at a Starbucks right now while my rig gets worked on next door. These people in here are something else. The table next to me is a combo of men and women between about mid 20s and mid 60s. They are going around the table all talking about Los Angeles and their times they have been there and what they did. This is Illinois, like it or lump it. If you want to be in Los Angeles then get up and fvcking go there. LL's redneck translation: they are sniffing their own farts. Then you got the little 'ladies' in line in their Yoga Pants as if they just came from Yoga class. LL's redneck translation: I see a lot of toes but do not yet see the camel. I swear these women wear Yoga pants to try and see who can stick their cl|t out further and act like it's a d|ck.

Not my place at all. Next time I say I am going to Starbucks, somebody please warn me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LOL!!! Yeah starbucks is definitely a cucky place. I haven't been to one since I was in Seattle.

And I definitely have no interest in supporting them after they did not want gun carriers coming into their stores.

lol I completely forgot about the gun thing. I am packing by 40 S&W right now, as I do everywhere. I didn't even think about that. Safest Starbucks in Illinois right now, this one is. lol
 

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Sign them up with SoSuave and we'll set them straight.
 

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Starbucks can be a decent place to get some work done, provided you choose the right location and the right time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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