"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Standards VS just getting it in

spiegel549

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I have been partying a lot the past month. I am talking 5 days a week HARD partying. I have a lot of guy friends that will get it in with ANYTHING I am talking 5's...

They have been busting my balls a little bit because at the end of a normal night we normally pull a few good 7's or 8's but if we don't pull anything.....they call these broads that are like 5's MAYBE 6 if your wasted drunk lol. They go to me "bro just hit it, get it in."

Unless I am wasted I can't get it up to a fcuking 5 lol...Is it just me?? Am I right in this case to turn down these 5's? Or should I just suck up it and get my **** wet?

I mean getting laid is great and all, but I rather jerk off then fcuk a 5.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you have your own standards, keep to them, if f ccking 5's whales makes you feel cr@p, dont do it, whats the point?
 
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I have standards, I wouldn't stick my d!ck in a pig, its just not kosher.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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IMO it totally depends on how you've been doing on that side lately. If you've been getting laid a lot, just call it a night and don't lower your standards. Sometimes however, you just need to get some action and can't seem to get lucky with anyone better looking so I would say go for it. She might be an awesome lay too. I find extremely good looking girls boring in bed most of the time.
 
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