"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Standards VS just getting it in

spiegel549

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I have been partying a lot the past month. I am talking 5 days a week HARD partying. I have a lot of guy friends that will get it in with ANYTHING I am talking 5's...

They have been busting my balls a little bit because at the end of a normal night we normally pull a few good 7's or 8's but if we don't pull anything.....they call these broads that are like 5's MAYBE 6 if your wasted drunk lol. They go to me "bro just hit it, get it in."

Unless I am wasted I can't get it up to a fcuking 5 lol...Is it just me?? Am I right in this case to turn down these 5's? Or should I just suck up it and get my **** wet?

I mean getting laid is great and all, but I rather jerk off then fcuk a 5.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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betheman

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you have your own standards, keep to them, if f ccking 5's whales makes you feel cr@p, dont do it, whats the point?
 

seethehoop

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I have standards, I wouldn't stick my d!ck in a pig, its just not kosher.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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popsickle

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IMO it totally depends on how you've been doing on that side lately. If you've been getting laid a lot, just call it a night and don't lower your standards. Sometimes however, you just need to get some action and can't seem to get lucky with anyone better looking so I would say go for it. She might be an awesome lay too. I find extremely good looking girls boring in bed most of the time.
 
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