stalking?

[Mrgoodguy301]

Ok so I got dumped by my ex girlfriend who has a personality disorder, she broke up with me by moving out while I was at work. Then totally ignoring me. She never said "we're over".. total silence for five months now. But funny thing is, she keeps driving by my house.. and it's totally out of her way. Why dump me then keep tabs?!

 

[MartinARMT]

bishes be crazy

 

[Mrgoodguy301]

Haha yea you got that right. This whole ordeal is crazy.

 

[SBW]

I think you answered that when you mentioned she has a personality disorder - you can expect periods of utter irrationality with most of them.

 

[Mike32ct]

She dumped you but still drives by to see if another car is in the driveway.

She wants to make sure you aren't doing another chick.

Play some porn film really loud when she drives by lol.

But in all seriousness, yes, chicks are crazy.

 

[Mrgoodguy301]

She took our child. My lawyers are doing what they can. But she has simply disappeared. All because I wanted her to get a job and help out.

 

[mangotot]

She did you a favour by dumping you, you don't want a girl with personality disorder.

 

[Albatross953]

Get a better lawyer.

 

[Mrgoodguy301]

When someone doesn't work or pay bills it's extremely hard to find them. This lawyer is great .

 

[Mrgoodguy301]

Well she left on a good note. I got laid twice and my clothes washed.

 

[Albatross953]

"She took our child".

In my mind this is a declaration of war.
...call the police
...hire a PI
...if she gets therapy explore having her disorder as leverage for custody
...contact her family
...call childrens aid

If my kid hasn't seen me in over a week I'm probably dead.

 

[Mrgoodguy301]

Called the police, I'm friends with lots of officers. All I can do is file a missing persons report. Hired a private detective. And yes we have all her records. She is borderline personality disordered with over lapping sociopathic tendency. Her family will not return my calls. I'm guessing she lied like hell to them. Her diaries are messed up too. She just up and left.

 

[countwoofoolah]

I have to weigh in here with one thing

WHY WOULD YOU BE WITH A WOMAN LIKE THIS ?

 

[Mrgoodguy301]

She didn't rage at me. Trust me it's not what you think. I started noticing her stories weren't adding up... I had no idea about mental illness like this. Finally I started playing detective and checking up on all her things she told me. She lied about being raped twice. I found out she was hiding guy friends and talking sh!t about me to people. It all hit at once guys. I mean she did call me fat and say hurtful things to me sometimes.. but I started calling her out on things. Then she disappeared after a perfect day. She even ask me to marry her.

 

[mangotot]

Why on earth did you get involved with this nutter in the first place? Reeks of poor judgement.

 

[Mrgoodguy301]

She was nice duh lol. When we first met she said all the right things. You know how it goes. They mirror you.

 

[Thundernuts]

Haha oh this brings back memories. My BPD ex asked me to marry her as well. Funny thing as her ring was a ring that doubled as a bottle opener.

Bushes be crazy.

 

[Mrgoodguy301]

Yeah dude, she just walks into my house unannounced and sits down and asks me lol. I said babe that's my job. And I will when you get a job and start being honest.