"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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zerocelcius

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Hey everyone this is not because anything I have learned here, well maybe, but in my area I have become somewhat of a celebraty..e...somthing.....

well i found out from a friend of my stalker that I indeed have a well Stalker... hmmm maybe that last drink was too much...

well anyway.

She said that a girl drives from two towns away to catch my show ..._right on that is good news_...

no no it isn't...

than she tells me that my stalker knows everything about me...

where I work
when I work
my personal life
and that she goes way out of her way to
be part of my life...yet I have no idea who she is

I was informed that she comes to my club night just to look at me all night, and that isn't it... she watches me at work..... yea creepy yet... it is to me...

I have seen things like this on tv. Next thing you know she is going to shot my girlfriend and rape me... yea rape me.. I know it or not, but still creepy as hell/

what do you do about a stalker that you don't even know who she is????

Yea Don Juans answer that muther phuck'n question....

Ru tu wa zi of a question... I know... but cera's in need of some 411!!!!

Like Yikes Scoob!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lol,

I suggest the non-juan bible on this one my friend.
 

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Okay the one million dollar question is : how hot is she?
 

zerocelcius

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Na for real I have no idea who she is...

and any way she ranks a 12 on the crazy scale (1-10)!!!!!

hazard of the occupation I guess.. and I am so damn sexy... who can blame her..

hmm I wounder... How hot is she!!!!!!!!

Damn stalkers and their secrative ways!!
 

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never ever go out with a stalker ... no matter how pretty she is or how good the sex is.

Think of the clingiest person you know, multiply that by a thousand ... carry the 2 .... and thats what you get.

OMG if she actually thinks there is the possibility that you are in love with her, prepare to file got ole-fashioned restraining order. Think "sleeping with the enemy".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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zerocelcius

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:eek:
 

zerocelcius

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This remindes me of a stoy I have to tell.. on myself... I am so ashamed.. but it is true....

listen...

I met a girl from the internet... I KNOW I KNOW>> stop it I was young dump and ... you know the rest...

Well it was xool at first she was hot she could sing... she had big boobs....

she stabbed sombody to death.. Yea no ****e.

I was like Whoa... no like Aghhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!

But I didn't find out til I knocked her bootz....

it was like this

Hi
Hi
Your cute
you too
want to (*&*(&(&\\
Yea
Me too
ahhh
ohhh
mmmmm
ahhh

I killed sombody...
um
....slence....
4 real
yea .. I stabbed her like 22 times
...silence....
.......
bye...
f u
bye
silence...


true story
yet i feel somwhat compeled to also tell you she was hot
blond big boobs blue eyes... crazy...

NEver Do the internet thing again I said... take my advice stay away from desprate woman on the internet.. unless they are hot than just hump and dump em....

or not live your own life...

~ stalked by stalker
DJ Zerocelcius
 

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untill you meet the gurll and see her folowing you / looking at you wierd.... i wouldn't worry about it. Chances are her friend is overblowing it. Eather she doesn't like her, or likes you....... i don't know. Meet the gurl first, and then make your decisions.
 

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thanks for the heads up but no decision is needed...

have a girl dont' need a stalker
 

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so you'd rather just worry about it:confused: Never knowing where she is at, who she is, and if she is of any concern:confused:

meet the chick and see if she is a psycho killer. If she is, at least you'll know who she is so you can take the percautions. If she is harmless, and just has a crush on you, then LJBF her (since you already have a gf) and move on.....

use your head.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zerocelcius said:
thanks for the heads up but no decision is needed...

have a girl dont' need a stalker

I didn't write that response... Damn I must not of logged off. I had a habit of that back in the day.

Story update!

I never met my stalker but I think I might know who she is. There is this overweight somewhat retarded girl that sets at one of the bar table next to the nest and she just looks at me the whole time. She is there almost every time.

Weird.

:woo: Running!
 

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I should think this is painfully obvious....

Make your friend tell you who the stalker is. Somehow your friend knows this person, and your friend is putting you in danger by not telling you, unless it is actually your friend doing the stalking. It is very irresponsible to with hold the identity of a stalker to the target, ESPECIALLY if it's someone close.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
I should think this is painfully obvious....

Make your friend tell you who the stalker is. Somehow your friend knows this person, and your friend is putting you in danger by not telling you, unless it is actually your friend doing the stalking. It is very irresponsible to with hold the identity of a stalker to the target, ESPECIALLY if it's someone close.

It wasn't my friend that told me it was a friend of the stalker. The girl that told just came up to me randomly. I guess to warn me or somthing, but I have never seen the girl that told me agian. From what I can remember the girl that is stalking lived with the girl that told me.

:eek:
 
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