"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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pyros

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So I met this HB5.5 like two months ago while dancing salsa. Right off the bat she asked me my name, asked me to dance a few times etc...and it seems she is super into me for no reason, cause I have not done anything to deserve this lol

Since that day:

1- she comes to say hi every time she sees me.
2- she asks me to dance every time she sees me, normally more than once.
3- she always likes whatever sh-it I post on fb.
4- one time she grabbed my hand and held it for like a whole minute while talking to me...
5- another time she sat next to me and hugged me, and kept hugging me (in front of everybody in the club) for like one minute.
6- she always gets super close.

She is 30, thin, not too tall not too short, but she is a bit ugly, besides I do not like her vibe.
I have to say that I have never, EVER, initiated anything. I never said hi first, I never ask her to dance with me, I never touch her, and I never talk to her on fb, neither I like her pics.

This confirms that beta girls do exist too, because her behaviour is the same a beta guy does, and the same behaviour that turns off women.

I dont know if you've been in similar situations...?
lately I try to avoid her cause its getting annoying.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I was involved with a women like this once. I found her irritating.

Because you don't initiate anything, ignore her, and generally don't care what she does she's drawn to you. She tries so hard because you are not giving in and her attraction grows because of this.


pyros said:
She is 30, thin, not too tall not too short, but she is a bit ugly, besides I do not like her vibe.
She might be just desperate because of her age. At age 30, some women will cling to whatever is available because they don't have a lot to choose from. I'm not saying this to insult you, but her clock is probably ticking and she's putting on a full court press to seduce you.
 

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the thing is, that I dont understand why she doesnt see I am not attracted to her! it is damn obvious! jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeezzzz....

P.S.
today she liked my profile pic on fb... :~~~~(
 

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LOL, I had the same sh1t with a fat HB000,01 blonde ditto bruh. Just run
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pyros said:
lately I try to avoid her cause its getting annoying.
I think it's time to man up and confront her about it.
 

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She will hate you when she see you with a hot chick. do you even have some hot plate at the moment or just hunting?
Otherwise just confront her or just be a real d!ck and she will get lost.

Cut attention + Hot girl= dead stalker lol
 

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holy crap a woman likes you, the HORROR, say it ain't so! you must be absolutely TRAUMATIZED.
 
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