"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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@ss wipe =Girls??? WTF???

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Lil Magic

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:confused: It seems like nowadays, girls like A$$wipes NOT jerks. I have a friend, i wont lie i dont know wat girls see in him. He may be a slight bit above average looking but other than that there's nothing, no brains, annoying voice and if it anything, im sure i have more confidence. How is it that i always do the whole approach and attraction thing and this guy who hesitates to even talk to them in such a way attracts them. I'm really starting to question the point of my efforts.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah man I know exactly what your talking about. i guess some girls just like an insecure guy they can take control of. I've seen it too, but one think ive noticed is that even though they give these shy kids all the attention, when it really comes down to it they don't actually "get with" girls, they just get their attention. I'd owe it up to looks. Girls see that hes good looking and jump on him, but then once they find out his personality they see hes not the kind of guy they want.
 
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I'm not so sure I understand you. Women that I know hardly approach the quiet, soft, annoying guy. If anything, they pretend to be their friend because they feel pity for them. (This is assuming that he is average looking and the information you provided above is accurate.)

They may just see something in him that you don't see or he acts differently when he is around them, or even worse.. he games them when you aren't around. ;)
 
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Wolf said:
I have a boy in my school who is the very DEFINITION! of shy...

He doesn't talk, EVER, (maybe a medical condition but hey) even to teachers, they call his name in the register and he just laughs.

He laughs at ANYTHING because he never talks, but he gets SOOOO much attention.

No girls actually want to "get with him" as such but he gets SOOOOOOOOOOO much attention from them.
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yeah exactly what im talking about.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If attraction was based on GPA, smarter kids wouldn't be the stereotypical social retards.

If he's loud, he's confident. Doesn't matter if it's deserved or not, chicks dig it.
 
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