"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SS patterns - friends into lovers

voguemaster

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Hi all,

I know that SS "tricks" and patterns are quite controversial themselves
but I was wondering specifically about how good Jeffries' friends
into lovers pattern might be.

The concept is clear but I'm not entirely convinced it can move a
person from the "friend zone" to the other category we all like
to find ourselves in :D .

Any thoughts/comments on how good these methods might prove ?
Any real life experience with them ?

Thank you for your time,
E
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i actually used it on a couple of my friends, one was a long time friend and one i dated and she decided that we should remain friends. to me, it was pretty effective. it was like those girls see me in a totally different light. i think the key to making it work is how you move the convo. toward talking about relationship, feelings etc...and then deliver those patterns in between. you can't just deliver one pattern in the whole conversation and think its gonna work, cuz it won't, u have to be able to move from one pattern to another as the convo. flows.
 

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so basically you're saying it has to come in some context and not
be standalone, just like words are a part of a sentence.

I wonder it it'll work. It's also quite interesting to figure out which
of the patterns would work in a given situation.
 

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exactly, many guys make the mistake and think that if they could just throw out a pattern or two and the girls will instantly fall in love and when they find it doesn't work and girls look at them weird, they'll give up and say that ss is bs. expert in ss will create enless patterns as the convo. flows not just the ones u read online. it could be about anything, sports, games, dancing, school etc...and the sseducer will link all of those feelings to him. i read that bishop, an ss guru, seduced and fvcked a girl in less than 3 hours. it might seem cool and all, but those three hours were packed w/ diff. types and kinds of patterns. just imagine how long a 3 hour of patterns when written is.
 

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that guy converted a friend and fvcked her in 3 hours? or picked up a chick and fvcked her in 3hrs?


Ive converted many friends :) Its simple, and effective.

It works, choose patterns that make them forget everything else, let them focus directly on their feeling right now, in that room, on that couch, with you.

Make it sexual also, obviously :)

and KINO KINO KINO.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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