"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SS patterns - friends into lovers

voguemaster

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Hi all,

I know that SS "tricks" and patterns are quite controversial themselves
but I was wondering specifically about how good Jeffries' friends
into lovers pattern might be.

The concept is clear but I'm not entirely convinced it can move a
person from the "friend zone" to the other category we all like
to find ourselves in :D .

Any thoughts/comments on how good these methods might prove ?
Any real life experience with them ?

Thank you for your time,
E
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i actually used it on a couple of my friends, one was a long time friend and one i dated and she decided that we should remain friends. to me, it was pretty effective. it was like those girls see me in a totally different light. i think the key to making it work is how you move the convo. toward talking about relationship, feelings etc...and then deliver those patterns in between. you can't just deliver one pattern in the whole conversation and think its gonna work, cuz it won't, u have to be able to move from one pattern to another as the convo. flows.
 

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so basically you're saying it has to come in some context and not
be standalone, just like words are a part of a sentence.

I wonder it it'll work. It's also quite interesting to figure out which
of the patterns would work in a given situation.
 

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exactly, many guys make the mistake and think that if they could just throw out a pattern or two and the girls will instantly fall in love and when they find it doesn't work and girls look at them weird, they'll give up and say that ss is bs. expert in ss will create enless patterns as the convo. flows not just the ones u read online. it could be about anything, sports, games, dancing, school etc...and the sseducer will link all of those feelings to him. i read that bishop, an ss guru, seduced and fvcked a girl in less than 3 hours. it might seem cool and all, but those three hours were packed w/ diff. types and kinds of patterns. just imagine how long a 3 hour of patterns when written is.
 

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that guy converted a friend and fvcked her in 3 hours? or picked up a chick and fvcked her in 3hrs?


Ive converted many friends :) Its simple, and effective.

It works, choose patterns that make them forget everything else, let them focus directly on their feeling right now, in that room, on that couch, with you.

Make it sexual also, obviously :)

and KINO KINO KINO.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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