"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SS "Master Don Juan" status

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Not sure where else to post this or which mod to PM;

I've had an idea for a feedback system on SS that allows members to earn Master Don Juan status through how many post reactions they have. New members would be assigned a Junior Don Juan status which would be upgraded to Don Juan status once they receive a certain number of post reactions; say one hundred.

To achieve Master Don Juan status, a poster would need a higher post reaction count than post count overall. I guess the "angry" face post reaction wouldn't count as it would potentially allow a troll who posts inflammatory/off topic drivel to become a Master Don Juan, and we couldn't be having any of that. :devil:

Of course, Don Juan/Master Don Juan status is no big deal, but this system would allow other posters to instantly tell how respected and appreciated a member's advice usually is, and how succinctly they can give that advice to the benefit of the most other members. It would mean most of us would lose Master Don Juan status, as having more reactions than posts definitely isn't easy.

Remember kids, the higher your post reaction score, the bigger your penis! :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lynx nkaf

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Not sure where else to post this or which mod to PM;

I've had an idea for a feedback system on SS that allows members to earn Master Don Juan status through how many post reactions they have. New members would be assigned a Junior Don Juan status which would be upgraded to Don Juan status once they receive a certain number of post reactions; say one hundred.

To achieve Master Don Juan status, a poster would need a higher post reaction count than post count overall. I guess the "angry" face post reaction wouldn't count as it would potentially allow a troll who posts inflammatory/off topic drivel to become a Master Don Juan, and we couldn't be having any of that. :devil:

Of course, Don Juan/Master Don Juan status is no big deal, but this system would allow other posters to instantly tell how respected and appreciated a member's advice usually is, and how succinctly they can give that advice to the benefit of the most other members. It would mean most of us would lose Master Don Juan status, as having more reactions than posts definitely isn't easy.

Remember kids, the higher your post reaction score, the bigger your penis! :D
Who knows how many regular members posting are even real(not robots?)
 

Billtx49

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Who knows how many regular members posting are even real(not robots?)
This Forum’s software identifies robots and prevents them from posting. In the event that a spambot does get a post in, a Moderator usually deletes it when it’s noticed…
 

Lynx nkaf

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This Forum’s software identifies robots and prevents them from posting. In the event that a spammer bot does get a post in, a Moderator usually deletes it when it’s noticed…
oh! that's interesting, thank you for sharing that.
I have often wondered how advanced AI is with computers and internet forums.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Billtx49

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oh! that's interesting, thank you for sharing that.
I have often wondered how advanced AI is with computers and internet forums.
Check out the Xenforo home page. It may give you an idea before you post about what this Forum uses as an OS…
 

Atom Smasher

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The “Master Don Juan“ title is pretty much meaningless. It has to do with number of posts, if I’m not mistaken. I’m pretty sure it has nothing whatsoever to do with likes. This is based upon a discussion we mods had years ago. It was before SS implemented this particular forum software however.
 

Lynx nkaf

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Check out the Xenforo home page. It may give you an idea before you post about what this Forum uses as an OS…
Interesting but it's like reading a foreign language.
I know machine shop programming but not this kind of advanced software programming.
I know I should learn this to generate side income.
:)
Xenforo has its own forum and it looks like this setup.
 

Billtx49

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Interesting but it's like reading a foreign language.
I know machine shop programming but not this kind of advanced software programming.
I know I should learn this to generate side income.
:)
Xenforo has its own forum and it looks like this setup.
Yep, I remember seeing my first automated milling machine back around 1975. Ran on a tape with holes punched in it, like a continuous old style computer punchcard, but that’s ancient history now.
Getting up to date on internet software programming would be a good resume benefit.
 

Lynx nkaf

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Yep, I remember seeing my first automated milling machine back around 1975. Ran on a tape with holes punched in it, like a continuous old style computer punchcard, but that’s ancient history now.
Getting up to date on internet software programming would be a good resume benefit.
just as ancient as card catalogues or microfiche machines in libraries, I know.
My first CNC milling machine operation was in 1995. It was either Fanuc or Mazak.
I was a tool and die maker before choosing these other steel trades. Took CNC programming at night school.
Didn't like how removed my hands were from finished product. Probably why welding and handling wrenches suits me better.
For example, central library here has a 3d printer to play with but I'd rather sculpt the printed 3d product than program a 'robot' to do it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Billtx49

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just as ancient as card catalogues or microfiche machines in libraries, I know.
My first CNC milling machine operation was in 1995. It was either Fanuc or Mazak.
I was a tool and die maker before choosing these other steel trades. Took CNC programming at night school.
Didn't like how removed my hands were from finished product. Probably why welding and handling wrenches suits me better.
For example, central library here has a 3d printer to play with but I'd rather sculpt the printed 3d product than program a 'robot' to do it.
Well, you sound like a real hands on type of lady. Better watch it on a forum full of men.
I did welding also, mostly aluminum and stainless, but that’s ancient history also.
 

Lynx nkaf

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Well, you sound like a real hands on type of lady. Better watch it on a forum full of men.
I did welding also, mostly aluminum and stainless, but that’s ancient history also.
I think that's cool you can weld aluminum, I couldn't quite get it.
Its not all men here, I don't think billtx49. I just started revisiting my old hunting related forum I first joined in 2006 which is mostly male. I have more things in common with men with the way I look at the world.
I am completely comfortable. Thank you Sir.
 

andreihaha

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Not sure where else to post this or which mod to PM;

I've had an idea for a feedback system on SS that allows members to earn Master Don Juan status through how many post reactions they have. New members would be assigned a Junior Don Juan status which would be upgraded to Don Juan status once they receive a certain number of post reactions; say one hundred.

To achieve Master Don Juan status, a poster would need a higher post reaction count than post count overall. I guess the "angry" face post reaction wouldn't count as it would potentially allow a troll who posts inflammatory/off topic drivel to become a Master Don Juan, and we couldn't be having any of that. :devil:

Of course, Don Juan/Master Don Juan status is no big deal, but this system would allow other posters to instantly tell how respected and appreciated a member's advice usually is, and how succinctly they can give that advice to the benefit of the most other members. It would mean most of us would lose Master Don Juan status, as having more reactions than posts definitely isn't easy.

Remember kids, the higher your post reaction score, the bigger your penis! :D
I feel like people see that reaction score is anyway.
Giving Master Don Juan for reaction score might make some people post stuff just so get more likes. Kind of an insecure woman sort of thing. It's fine to have ideas that other don't share or appreciate. Sometimes we post cr4p around here.

BTW, reaction score penis growth sounds fun. But I'm afraid if you'd get a":lol:", it would be like when a woman laughs at your penis. Making it smaller. So I heard.
 
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