"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SS helps confidence?

Harry Cash

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SS helps confidence?

Hello DJ’s around, let me tell you just what I’ve found out.
In fact SS can help you get more confidence.
Why?
Well, you don’t even have to use SS (if you think it’s mean or something…) but when you know SS you know you can get the girl after all. So, why worry if she’s hot but too dumb? Why worry if she’s hot but snob? You’ll be able to use your DJ skills easily (I know you’ve been learning a lot!) and with a better outcome.
I know how it is… when we approach a girl at a club, bar, street or anywhere else, and get dumped, we occasionally feel like: “Man, I could do a lot better if I were relaxed or confident.”
Guess you noticed what I mean….

That’s it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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