"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When watching Brown Sugar, the actors talk about their love for music, how it gives them that feeling, and subconciously they both feel that same way for each other. To me it seemed like some kind of SS pattern that the listner can relate to and evokes the same feeling for the person saying it. That gets me to asking does SS create that feeling, evoke the it, or just show the chick that you might have feelings for her?

I've studied SS for a little bit and have recently come to the conclusion that it is mostly those "romantic metaphors" spewed out of most romantic movies. (Ie: Do you remember that feeling Hip-Hop gave you...) Is the primary focus of SS just speaking in metaphors and hoping that she grips onto one of the many life-preservers you throw at her? Is SS just talking about true emotions behind a verbal shield so that you can't get in trouble? If so why does it work on people who are already in love? Is it just gaining rapport off of a subtle play on words that only the two of you can comprehend?

Just a couple of questions for you advanced SSheads
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The primary focus of the SS is to get get horny and fukk her in a short period of time.

After creating rapport, it focuses on shifting the girl into a sexual state of mind. There are many NLP techniques that can do that.

I don't really understand most of the questions you wrote. I'd suggest you buy an intro book on NLP and read it. Most of your questions will be answered that way.
 
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