"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Microphone Fiend

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When watching Brown Sugar, the actors talk about their love for music, how it gives them that feeling, and subconciously they both feel that same way for each other. To me it seemed like some kind of SS pattern that the listner can relate to and evokes the same feeling for the person saying it. That gets me to asking does SS create that feeling, evoke the it, or just show the chick that you might have feelings for her?

I've studied SS for a little bit and have recently come to the conclusion that it is mostly those "romantic metaphors" spewed out of most romantic movies. (Ie: Do you remember that feeling Hip-Hop gave you...) Is the primary focus of SS just speaking in metaphors and hoping that she grips onto one of the many life-preservers you throw at her? Is SS just talking about true emotions behind a verbal shield so that you can't get in trouble? If so why does it work on people who are already in love? Is it just gaining rapport off of a subtle play on words that only the two of you can comprehend?

Just a couple of questions for you advanced SSheads
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The primary focus of the SS is to get get horny and fukk her in a short period of time.

After creating rapport, it focuses on shifting the girl into a sexual state of mind. There are many NLP techniques that can do that.

I don't really understand most of the questions you wrote. I'd suggest you buy an intro book on NLP and read it. Most of your questions will be answered that way.
 
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