"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SS concept questions?

Microphone Fiend

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When watching Brown Sugar, the actors talk about their love for music, how it gives them that feeling, and subconciously they both feel that same way for each other. To me it seemed like some kind of SS pattern that the listner can relate to and evokes the same feeling for the person saying it. That gets me to asking does SS create that feeling, evoke the it, or just show the chick that you might have feelings for her?

I've studied SS for a little bit and have recently come to the conclusion that it is mostly those "romantic metaphors" spewed out of most romantic movies. (Ie: Do you remember that feeling Hip-Hop gave you...) Is the primary focus of SS just speaking in metaphors and hoping that she grips onto one of the many life-preservers you throw at her? Is SS just talking about true emotions behind a verbal shield so that you can't get in trouble? If so why does it work on people who are already in love? Is it just gaining rapport off of a subtle play on words that only the two of you can comprehend?

Just a couple of questions for you advanced SSheads
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ice Cold

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The primary focus of the SS is to get get horny and fukk her in a short period of time.

After creating rapport, it focuses on shifting the girl into a sexual state of mind. There are many NLP techniques that can do that.

I don't really understand most of the questions you wrote. I'd suggest you buy an intro book on NLP and read it. Most of your questions will be answered that way.
 
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