even though as a DJ you can naturally attaract women, SS can easily be used just for fun on dates and such as fun games. like running the cube or some thing like that or running a pattern for 10 mins just to pass the time between location to location in the car.... any ways im just trowing it out there.. ive used it before and it seems to work fine.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SS can be used to as insterseting conversations in dates!!
- Thread starter cyp6
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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i support u bro, at least someone got ur back man
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Um, it's understood that SS is Speed Seduction. A method of using NLP and other communication techniques to quickly seduce a woman.Raikojo17 said:
SoSuave is not a path. It's a starting point to discuss various disciplines of maturity and manhood.
Francisco d'Anconia
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:nono: Someone hasn't been studying his acronyms. :nono:Raikojo17 said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.