Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Not in my experience. Most girls don't know they can do it. And generally don't just squirt hard straight from the start. You have to train them into it.Squirting is more of a female talent than anything specific that a man does...
Yes I agree. Sometimes I forget we have younger readers as well, as I generally only post in the mm section.I don't see anything against sharing it via PM for anyone who specifically says they want to see it. But making it public, absolutely not. We don't want our forum to be lumped in status with porn sites.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, they tend to stop because it feels like they are going to pee everywhere. It helps to be drunk and peeing a lot already. Squirt fluid isn't exactly urine. It's the liquid before the body mixes waste into it. So it helps a little if she already feels like she has to pee.Not in my experience. Most girls don't know they can do it. And generally don't just squirt hard straight from the start. You have to train them into it.
A lot revolves around technique and her mental comfort.