"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey guys,

The iris of my right eye is moved toward my nose a bit, my left eye is not affected. When Im wearing glasses its less noticeable, but still visible. I want to know, if it screws your appearance


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Fatbot
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Centaurion

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it'll probably screw your apperance...they have glasses that corrects **** like that (don't know how though), you might want to check that out.
 

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this Loss Prevention guy that works with me has the same thing, it's weird looking, but I've gotten over it... I seriously don't think women care too much about it, just remember that women don't care TOO much about looks. they want an alpha male, a DJ.
 

DeathDealer

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Originally posted by spidersense
this Loss Prevention guy that works with me has the same thing, it's weird looking, but I've gotten over it... I seriously don't think women care too much about it, just remember that women don't care TOO much about looks. they want an alpha male, a DJ.
stop being a nice guy and tell the truth. dude would you date a girl that had weird eyes like one going the other way - probably less likely than a girl that had normal eyes. try to find a way to get corrected, if you can't - then live with it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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InsidiousNstinct

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Hell I have a lazy eye (meaning one of my eyes is closed because the muscle does not work) I just deal with it. If you can't get your iris fixed or whatever then who cares. Don't let trivial stuff liek that get to you man...;)
 
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