"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Squatting Correctly

ProDJ26

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Here at The Health & Fitness Forum we coach the mechanics of "Perfect Form".

Especially Squats. Not only are they the "King of All Exercises" they can help give you the greatest results in the least amount of time. Most say that going pass parallel on Squats is bad for the knees. If that's the case than why is it that babies naturally squat with perfect form.

Ok well at least for the most part. (Sometimes there toes aren't slighty pointed out) "Correct technique is the most efficient display of strength" - Mark Ripptoe

Head should be up, chest out and toes pointed slightly outward.

The correct form of Squats should always be done BELOW parallel
or ATG (Ass to Grass)

Here is an example of "Perfect Squats"

:yes: :cheer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7IkyiekPIrg&NR=1:cheer: :yes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jitterbug

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I have a whole Youtube playlist of hot squatting girls, and this has been added to the list, but she doesn't have perfect form. She has what is known as a "butt wink". Look at how it dips ("winks") at the bottom. That's when she loses the tension that's been building up in the glutes & hammies.
 

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butt wink is caused because of high bar placement, the feet facing forward and trying to go to low. The more forward your feet are facing the more you start moving into parallel wide stance squat territory.

If the heels were close together, high bar placement on the back and the toes turned outward buttwink would be eliminated.


Her form is really good though and she may have a slight butt wink but that is due to the heavy weight pulling her down at the bottom.

One thing I didn't like about her squats was bar placement. Most people really struggle with inflexible wrists so they just use high bar placement for ALL of their squats which I don't recommend but to each their own.
 

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I don't see the butt wink. Obviously I'll have to study this video carefully, many times.
 

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She has a slight 'tail tuck'. It's where the pelvis tilts posteriorly due to loss of lower back arch; AKA flexion of the lumbar spine. There are many components to a technically keen squat, and as the weight goes up form deficiencies will be impossible to hide. The squat is a sitting back movement. There also isn't one perfect way to squat. Everyone has slightly different structure so things like bar placement and foot placement will vary. Trainers think they know everything but most of them cant squat their way out of a wet paper bag.

One other key point to remember: if you are spending too much time quibbling about squat form, your squat is weak.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Always on the lookout for instructions on how to improve form. Thanks for sharing.
 
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