"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mack Of All Trades

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I have a problem. I have seen that one of the best excercises for bulking up the legs is the squat. However, I can only work out at home, so I have a barbell and weights but no cage or power rack. Therefore, I find it EXTREMELY dangerous to use the weight I desire to get my legs bulked up. I cant lift the weights on to my neck in order to do the squat, and even if I could I know it would be extremely difficult to take it off once I am done. I have no spotter, just so you know.

Is there any way I can do squats with a heavy weight WIHOUT using a barbell? I need to be as safe as possible and dont want to risk serious injury.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mack Of All Trades

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I already figured it out. Dumbell squats.

Thanks for your help.
 

DJ Girevik

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Deadlifts or hack squats (which are like deadlifts but with the bar behind you instead of in front of you)
 
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