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Lifeforce said:
I can't last recall the time when I saw someone actually perform a proper squat in the gym. I've probably not seen ten people during all my time training who have performed it as it should be performed. It seems people think squatting is easy, it's just sitting down and standing up but it's one of the most complicated lifts you can do in the gym.

I used to think that deadlifts were the villain behind my back pain but now when I switched my stances around I found that the squat was the reason I had lower back pain. I did it with improper form, quads were overtaking the lift and put pressure on the lower back even though I performed the lift good. Now I use a wide stance and can go ATG again with knees out and I havent felt back pain ever since.

I am certain that this study should be taken with a grain of salt. Most injuries are probably due to bad form or lifting too heavy too often but as with everything there are risks involved in lifting which needs to be considered. On the other hand, how many backs haven't been hurt because of sedentary jobs such as sitting in an office all day?
Last Tuesday I went to a professional seminar with my colleagues at work. I sat in a chair for around 8 hours with minimal breaks. My back hurt FAR more after doing that, and didn't hurt one iota after doing a widowmaker set with 250lbs on my back.
 

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Sitting is one of the WORST things for your lower back. Continuous lumbar compression and flexion.

On an ironic note, I fvcked my back up really good on monday doing deadlifts, my favorite lift. With 135. Thats right, 135 pounds, first set of the day. I got the bright idea to switch hands on my alternate grip and it felt really awkward. I set my third rep down and felt that familiar lumbar stab...and the spasms followed. Im not sure what the take-home message is, other than the lower back is a fickle mistress. Dont change things if they are working just fine.
 

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men and women have been squating since the beginning of time. whether its squating down to pick something up, take a sh!t or gather round... Though if you really are against Squats you can use leg extensions or leg presses as an alternative.

@Colossus

Grip the bar palms facing down. You only need a over-under hand grip in the 300 pound range. Remember, keep your core tight, head up, use your legs, keep barbell close to your body and stick your chest out when finishing. Always use good form when lifting and always warmup/stretch before hitting the weights.
 

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Kerpal said:
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Dude, read his log. He's pulling over twice that much. I think he knows his way around a gym.
:crazy: Sorry, dont post here often... Sort of skimmed over this thread
 

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I've been saying this for ages, and getting flamed for it. I'll say it again: do NOT do squats and deadlifts, EVER.

I've seen too many patients come into my clinic with a f*cked lumbar, and it never heals, not fully, ever. You're messing with what you need to keep you erect. I'm sure you feel like a tank in the rack heaving 300 pounds around, wow, but you don't impress me.

Get your ego in check and do plyometric leg exercises instead, sissies.
 

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d!ckmojo said:
I've been saying this for ages, and getting flamed for it. I'll say it again: do NOT do squats and deadlifts, EVER.

I've seen too many patients come into my clinic with a f*cked lumbar, and it never heals, not fully, ever. You're messing with what you need to keep you erect. I'm sure you feel like a tank in the rack heaving 300 pounds around, wow, but you don't impress me.

Get your ego in check and do plyometric leg exercises instead, sissies.

Do you have any factual evidence that deadlifts or squats "fvcked up their lumbar"? Since we're being hypothetical here, I have a few questions for you: how many people mess up their backs simply from twisting the wrong way; how many people throw out their backs because they weren't used to lifting heavy things; don't you think that having a strong lower back might help prevent a lot of these injuries?
 

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Of course squats can fvck up your lumbar! If you're doing squats with sh!tty form! I'd reckon at least half of your patients who fvcked up their back doing squats are caused by bad form. I've seen my fair share of numbnuts doing squats that look like they are gonna break their spine in two, just a in matter of 5 months.

And to tyte, after lifting my stronger lower back has never given me pain problems ever since. Its the long term damage that this squat study talks about that I am concerned of.
 

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Kerpal said:
Well obviously lifting with bad form will **** up your back long-term.

The fact that this study was done under the "guidance" of doctors and physical therapists doesn't mean ****, because most doctors and physical therapists think a correct squat is done to quarter depth, with the bar on top of the neck, while looking at the ceiling :rolleyes:

I'm sick of people squatting and deadlifting like this, and then blaming "squats and deadlifts" when they hurt themselves.
Did you even look up the hospital? Its a hospital well known to treat sports and weight lifting injuries complete with orthopedic surgeons and a full floor of the hospital is dedicated to only weights lol. But of course whenever a study comes out that just might say squats cam be detrimental good or bad form, suddenly these experienced doctors and specialists in a hospital known to treat issues like this SUDDENLY can't conduct a proper study and forget what proper squat form is.
 

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Kerpal said:
That doesn't mean they're experts on what good form is. It just means they know how to fix people after they hurt themselves using bad form.



The mainstream is way behind when it comes to strength training. I had an inguinal hernia a couple years ago, and the surgeon who repaired it told me not to do the Valsalva maneuver, and that when I squat and deadlift I should exhale during the lift because it's safer. This is "common medical knowledge", but anyone who actually trains seriously knows that's a guaranteed way to hurt your back.
If you don't believe the doctors, at least take Colossus' and Espi's words into account. As far as I know they would know what a proper squat is and been doing it ever since, the presence of back pain which may be attributed to consistent proper squatting gives this study some credit. I still think this study is worth keeping in mind about and should not be dismissed immediately because it came from pencil necks who never did any lifting before.
 

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d!ckmojo said:
I've been saying this for ages, and getting flamed for it. I'll say it again: do NOT do squats and deadlifts, EVER.

I've seen too many patients come into my clinic with a f*cked lumbar, and it never heals, not fully, ever. You're messing with what you need to keep you erect. I'm sure you feel like a tank in the rack heaving 300 pounds around, wow, but you don't impress me.

Get your ego in check and do plyometric leg exercises instead, sissies.
My physio (also a national champion powerlifter) says most of his clients with a buggered back did it by bending over to pick up something as light as a pencil.

So do not pick up a pencil off the floor, EVER.
 
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