"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Squats and Deadlifts are low, advice needed. Several questions

Zaraza

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Hey guys,

I started doing squats, front squats, and deadlifts.

my deadlifts are at 145 pounds.
Front squats i did 95 pounds
Squats i did 155 Pounds,

what can i do to improve the weight? any stretches?

Also how do you guys hold the bar on front squats?


I know that ill have to do them mroe and then my body will get used to it and the weight will increase. I felt like a puss at first, but then i told myself that "you have to start somewhere".


thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thanks Quag!

I will finally grow bigger again. My legs are sore because they are not used to squats or deads. My lower back is sore too. I might start a journal when school starts. This way i will be able to update it on regular basis.

Thanks again man
 

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im gonna watch all of those mark riptoes videos before i continue, tomorrow i have time.
 

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title of book? was it the pdf that you can find thruogh those links?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Everyone starts somewhere bro, you said it yourself. Getting big numbers takes time and consistency (and food).

I think what helped me the most was training the hell out of the posterior chain and hips (sometimes 2x a week). So weighted ab work, good mornings, hypers, reverse hypers, glute ham raises if you have access to them. I'd also do the adductor/abductor machines if you have them.

I didn't do Rippetoe's when I started but I did put ~400lbs each on my deadlift and squat in my first year and I'm convinced it was because I hammered my core so much.

Start a journal too.
 

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Make sure you're going full ROM on everything you do.

For Front Squats I like the cross-arm grip a lot more than clean grip.
 
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