"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sprucing Up the Apartment

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Just gettin settled in my new apartment at school and all i have to say is its awesome. the dorms are good for the first year to meet a bunch of people, but after that if its financially possible, i highly recommend getting your own place.

The only real problem is decorating it with posters or whatever, me and the roommate are kinda at a loss for ideas for the living room and stuff. We want it to be awesome for havin people over and whatnot, anyone with any experience or preferably photos would be appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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go to allposters.com they have low prices , and alot of posters and other stuff, and theyr cheap + they have a weekly 25 % off campaign and stuff....
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Stud said:
Just gettin settled in my new apartment at school and all i have to say is its awesome. the dorms are good for the first year to meet a bunch of people, but after that if its financially possible, i highly recommend getting your own place.

The only real problem is decorating it with posters or whatever, me and the roommate are kinda at a loss for ideas for the living room and stuff. We want it to be awesome for havin people over and whatnot, anyone with any experience or preferably photos would be appreciated.
On a student's budget I suggest seeking out your local IKEA (www.ikea.com) store. They're inexpensive and they have tons of full room displays with decorating ideas.
 

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fwiw posters that are not enclosed in a frame or laminated will only last a few months before they start showing damage from humidity. Also, the yellow 'sticky-tack' stuff works well to attach paper to cinderblock walls, but if you use it with an unlaminated poster, it will leech through and discolor the front of the poster.

Do you have drywall (aka sheet rock) walls? If you hang anything on the wall, you need to find the stud or use a drywall anchor. Holes in drywall are easy to fix. The spackle stuff and a plastic knife to spread it are only about five bucks. You will probably need a drill to hang anything serious. You can get an el-cheapo cordless drill new for under $20, but a corded drill from a pawn store will give you more value for your money and last longer.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BB, our apartment doesn't let us actually drill into the walls, we have to use the poster tack or whatever. does damage = looking ****ty or just like if you want a pristine poster it wont be anymore, if you know what i mean.

thanks for the suggestions guys. does anyone here have a sweet party pad they would be willing to post or at least PM pics of?
 

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I'm looking for some classy pictures to hang around my appartment. I have 2 pictures that I've taken hung and framed in my room but my room is way too big to have just those. I need some things around poster size except I don't want posters. I'm a fan of modernism and abstract art but coming by a painting the size I want and the style I like seems almost impossible.

We've done the whole beer laden college esc apartment last year, but this year we're living in a higher quality apartment complex and I want out apartment to have a better feel to it then that.

So basically any advice on getting prints for around 100 dollars that would be a reasonable size (like a poster size) that would look nice. Framed would be awesome but basically anything. I've thought of like student art shows but not sure exactly where to find those.

I'll check out allposters for prints but some originals would be awesome
 

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Vincent said:
So basically any advice on getting prints for around 100 dollars that would be a reasonable size (like a poster size)
I have a few old A&F marketing posters (the 6'x10' ones) that I could stand to ship out if you're interested... ;)
 
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