"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Spring Fever - get off your a$$ , get in shape

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this sunday we will be discussing a fitness topic in the chatroom.
we usually have chat around 10 eastern / 9 central pm time.

due to the topic this week "Spring Fever- get off your a$$, get in shape"
i am going to need all the help i can get in the chatroom to inspire other members to be concerned with their health and start doing more physical things, such as exercise and work outs.

if anyone that hangs out in this forum wants to give some pointers, the help is greatly appreciated. i have already asked quicksilver to help, and he was going to ask a couple of people to help also.

this is the perfect time of the year to promote physical fitness.
please come to the chatroom and chime in for sunday night chat.

http://www.chatzy.com/122298398237
if you experience problems getting in, please pm me with your email addy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thank you for the sticky !

just reminding everyone that both quicksilver and effort are going to be at chat to help answer questions and to help motivate you!

don't miss it !
 

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$hit...effort and quik will be there...heh. They won't need me then :)
 

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I-tallionStallion said:
$hit...effort and quik will be there...heh. They won't need me then :)
hey we will take all the advice you have to offer too.
i hope you will come and chime in with them:D
 

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I'll try to give some of my expertise as far as the supplement industry goes, and any other aspect with diet and nutrition. I will not however be going into great depth more than likely, as it only confuses people. But if one wants it, ok :D

My goal is to TEACH people what they dont know, and give them as much correct advice as possible. Too often people take advice from kids in the gym and it is oftentimes (if not all of the time) incorrect.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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