"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Spring Break! Oh man The AFC is going away...

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After months at this website/community I've been gradually losing the AFC in me... It's time for me to get rid of that guy for good. Towards the end of Spring Break I'm planning to throw a party.

Is there any advice you guys can give me?

Maybe on the lines of how to throw a good party...

Will I be lame for saying "no sex"? I don't want to be cleaning up evidence of used condoms and such.

Music? Money? Beer? What's the situation got to be in these fields?

Anything else? I really need some help here guys.

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I'm also going to ask a girl I've been getting to know to go bowling with me...

I'm trying to play it as two people just hanging out and not a date... but to a DJ this is just a stepping stone to a future date.

I'm not a cheap bastard but would a DJ make her pay?

What are the good and bad sides of making her pay?


DJ_Trainee_10 out.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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On another note, you could play to see who pays next time. "I win, you pay next time, you win, I'll pay next time"..something like that, maybe.
 
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I like both your ideas.. it reminds me of the Seinfeld episode where this one guy made bets with women that he knew he'd lose (on purpose) just to win a dinner with them.

Anyone have an input on the party?
 
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