You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That is some excessively picture... with this product you can just put on a lighty summer look:Methuselah said:Negative. Think about long and hard man, do you really wanna be grouped into the catagory of men who spray tan? Like these assclowns...
I sure as fvck hope not.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah that's the kind of stuff I was referring to. I used it last summer when I was traveling through Europe, and it was very natural looking. Only problem is getting it under and around your fingernails. Be sure to wash that off as quickly as possible, or you'll get this ugly unnatural orange-ness around around your nails.Treetz said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That picture is hilarious, touche man. As for the topic, my FB uses this "summer glow" by Neutrogena... it's like a lotion but it tans you out after a week and it looks fantastic. Pretty sure it's under 15$ too!Methuselah said:Negative. Think about long and hard man, do you really wanna be grouped into the catagory of men who spray tan? Like these assclowns...
I sure as fvck hope not.