"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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spot the difference -- urgent

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ok people as your in here rite now reading this can you please help me out ---im facing a big dilemmA

ok me and my friends had planned a night out and we got everything sorted out like watclub we are going to go to and the limoand everything is paid for.... everything was goping perfect untill i woke up the day beforethe day we were gonna go out and guess wat theres a SPOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AND not only was there a spot but it was in the worst place possible...on my NOSE...AND as if that wasnt ENOUGH it wasnt just anywhere on the nose it was right on the tip and its big :(
can someone please help meget rid of it gimme sum advice i got like 8 hours to go before i go to this posh club and i dont want to look like a complete ****.... and ps sorry bout the speeling mistakes as those who have read my threads before would know i usually write correctly but i am in a rush as time is ticking away and i have tried the most obvious ways like toothpaste and creams etc ...please some one help!!!!!!!!! im counting on you...i would drop out but its like throwing 100 pounds down the toilet.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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G-Man UK

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Just go out in fancy dress, where a mask!!

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

Gangster Of Love

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What da hell is wrong with you? What are you, Paris Hilton, or any other high drama queen girly man? Sack it up man.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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Why would pay for a limo to go out clubbing? A little fancy isnt it? Do you even have a date or is this just to make yourself look like you're a million bucks?
 

Kaliffoo

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I would say either put toothpaste on it or ice it down....most likely its all in your head though...go out and have fun.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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splinterkb

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Steal some of your mom's make up if you're really that concerned.
 

Smooth Player 056

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pretend you had 20 spots and now u have 1 left.


- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
 

quest

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quit being a *****.

ask your mum for some foundation or concealer or something. don't go over the top.

you're lucky your 17. cause i was as stupid at 17. so i sympathise with you.

I'm still battling pimples to some degree, and you know what? i don't have the slightest problem with picking up.

it truly is, all in your head.

-and right now, you won't beleive me.
"you've never had a pimple THIS big!"

beleive me, i have, and infact, i'm sure i've had worse.
 
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