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Sports jackets - style and fit?

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I'm completely, utterly fashion challenged, and I'm just starting to look to upgrade my wardrobe.

Regarding sports coats or jackets, I notice in the stores that the old standby corduroy jackets are all over the racks, which leads me to think they are a classic look that is still in style. Is this correct?

Regarding fitting, is there a guideline for the length of a jacket, meaning is there a certain place on the body where the bottom of the jacket should rest? I seem to be right between regular and long.

Bear in in that I'm 51 yrs old, but I look and act extremely young, and am usually guessed to be about 33-35 yrs old. FWIW.

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Cord blazers seem to be making a come back. I've seen them start to pop up in popular retail clothing stores as of late. Most people find they have that "college professor" look and indeed that's the first thing I think of when I see them. However, I'm still looking into getting one. Not only is the blazer an american staple, but you can snazz it up in tons of ways.

As far as fit, I don't think there's an actual length the coat is supposed to hit. Make sure it fits well in the shoulders, chest, and sleeves (shouldn't hang down over your hands). It shouldn't be loose, but should be snug enough to define your physique yet still allow movement. If it fits right in the chest, it should fit right length wise as well.
 

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Thanks for that. I bought one today and it seems to fit quite well.

Now I'll just add to my wardrobe piece by piece as I embark on my journey to understanding fashion.
 
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