"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sports Coat/ Jacket

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Alright, buying my first sports coat (and I hope this thread is in the right place). I'm basically dirt poor because of my job, I am still in college so 200 is alot to me. Anyway, I narrowed it down to these two:

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I'm trying to pick something that I can wear in most social settings, as well as clubs when meeting women, and look stylish/nice, yet not look a flashy douchebag.
Sorry I'm struggling with this.

I plan on wearing it with dark jeans and a variety of shirts.

Which would you guys go with?

Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Definitely the 2nd one. The first one reeks of hipster / scene-ster douche. All you need is a vintage bicycle to go with it.

2nd one's got more presence.
 

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The second one does have more presence, but the first just seems like it would look better with more of a variety of shirts and pants. Especially if you are wearing darker jeans.

Could go either way or neither at all.

Final suggestion would be to keep looking
 

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1st one...H&M and Zara usually have some cheap sport coats, you should check them out. There should be sales going on right now, I picked up two sport coats and a suit from Zara for 115 euro (~$150).
 

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Gotta go with the first one. Just appeals to me more. I'm not really into the satin-trimmed lapels on the second
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I liked the first.

There are plenty of places I think where you can find a nice blazer for WAY under $200. Try clearance racks and places like Nordstrom Rack and Burlington Coat Factory. Steinmart too if one is near you.
 

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I like the first one. I have a sports coat like it except in Navy blue. That trimming on the second one is a little over kill in my opinon. It reminds me of the butlers outfits we have in the mansion at MGM. Definately go with a long cut coat either way. Short ones are for women...and detectives.
 

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As someone who used to work for one of the higher-end men's suit companies, I can say that paying for a brand isn't worth it. The corporation I worked for manufactured about 30 different brands, and when the customer (retailer) wanted an item that was not currently in stock, we would rip off old labels and put whatever label they were looking for on them and sell them at the marked up price. You could also find a very nice, new suit at a place like Burlington Coat Factory at 10% of the price, because that's where we sold old models...even though they all look the same every year.

I would recommend a place like K&G, Marshalls, or JC Pennies, they have pretty decent stuff at very affordable prices.

In terms of what you get for the money, it's 2% fabric quality and 98% brand name. Only in completely superficial places do people ask what brand of suit you are wearing, and that's when you answer that with a joke. The truth is, to 98% of the world, there is no visible difference between a $800 suit and a $30 coat from Wal-Mart. In fact, studies have been done that showed that many people couldn't tell the difference when wearing the two, until they saw a brand name.
 

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Effington said:
As someone who used to work for one of the higher-end men's suit companies, I can say that paying for a brand isn't worth it. The corporation I worked for manufactured about 30 different brands, and when the customer (retailer) wanted an item that was not currently in stock, we would rip off old labels and put whatever label they were looking for on them and sell them at the marked up price. You could also find a very nice, new suit at a place like Burlington Coat Factory at 10% of the price, because that's where we sold old models...even though they all look the same every year.

I would recommend a place like K&G, Marshalls, or JC Pennies, they have pretty decent stuff at very affordable prices.

In terms of what you get for the money, it's 2% fabric quality and 98% brand name. Only in completely superficial places do people ask what brand of suit you are wearing, and that's when you answer that with a joke. The truth is, to 98% of the world, there is no visible difference between a $800 suit and a $30 coat from Wal-Mart. In fact, studies have been done that showed that many people couldn't tell the difference when wearing the two, until they saw a brand name.
This is true with regards to many products, not just clothes. I'd love to know if these guys flaunting Grey Goose like it's a status symbol would even recognize it from a $12 bottle of Smirnoff.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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