"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sports = Aggresiveness?

Humble Young Man

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Last year I didn't play much sports and I am sort of a nice guy who never swears and never argues. But as of late, I began to play more sports and I began to notice some change in my behaviour. I have become naturally more aggresive and rude, sometimes I even swear... But the funny thing is that I am much more outgoing and less nevous in situations.

... To be honest I think I have turned into a jerk as of late... why is it? And how do be I be less rude and still out going at the same time?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

scribblec

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all i can say is competition brings out the best in us, im a very competitive guy and sometimes it can get annoying so try not to be too overly competitive and if your good at what you do then try to be humble, noone likes someone whos going to make them feel like **** for losing
 

seagull

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I have to agree, playing sport has done the same thing to me. It makes you feel more competitive and alive. I guess the exercise and competition raises testosterone levels. I think it's a change for the better.
 
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