"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Spontaneous Field Report

hockeyfreak79

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We all remember back in our younger partying days, the best parties where the ones that where never pre-planned. It was always the last minute get together/parties that ended up being the killer good times. :up:

Last weekend, had a Sat night early 9pm game. We win of course so the team goes up stairs for some victory beers. I get a text from hb7 plate,
"did you win?" Then she drops: "Don't forget to change your clocks tonight, we get an extra hour tonight. :) She hinted earlier we meet up for drinks but I had a game so she knew that wasn't happen. I get the hint she's ready for some action right now TONIGHT! I leave the arena call her up and tell her I am on my way to pick her up.

She's an introverted chick that's been semi-hard to crack, but I definitely cracked it open that night. :rockon:

Sunday comes along, I've have some momentum going from last night so I hit up hb7 plate 2, that I haven't meet yet. Some random texting over 2-3 weeks, busy with other plates couldn't find time to set something up. I usually don't do day dates with new ones but I said F-it this time and went for it. So within an hour I warm her up through text, getting some good vibes.

HF:"Do you ever get spontaneous"?
HB: Oh definitely....when possible! It's fun and usually turns out better than plans for me!!
HF: Sounds like you want to be spontaneous today!
HB: Haha...I'm broke!!! Limits me on what I can do. We can meet, when and where?

Done with texting, called her up told her the time and place. :woo:

Broads EAT UP up on spontaneous adventures! No doubt in my mind it makes their pvssys tingle! It's emotional and exciting to them, add it to your game when you can.

Also remember once this seed is planted they can and will flip the script and be spontaneous and it make it their idea! If you already have plans I do not suggest breaking them just to make a broad happy. Their are plenty of other days to be spontaneous.

I've haven't seen any threads on this so figured I'd share. Yeah, yeah I'm sure there is some Senior DJs that will come on here and say I've banged 2-3 girls spontaneously in a weekend. OK, that's great. Please share your story about the 2-3 slvts, I'd like to learn something.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hockeyfreak79

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Nobody has any feed back on this or experience? Successes and or failures?

Is this completely out of the norm or do you guys only prefer planned set dates?
 

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This really isnt a field report, it seems like its just advice on being more spontaneous. Which isnt bad because b*tches love an adventure.
 
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