"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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split or isolate?

Ectomorph

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will i get better results if i for example do
mon-bicep and back
wed- tri and chest
fri-shoulder and legs

or will it be better if i just do bicep and tricep for a month then change muscles evry month???like
mon, wed and fri- tri and biceeps
next month
mon wed and fri- back
and so on
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CaptainJ

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If you want to see quick and huge effects, I suggest you start on a strength training program, like stronglifts 5x5
www.stronglifts.com

I've had better gains from this routine in 1 month than I've had from half a year of your standard 3 day split isolation exercises.

Oh and your two muscle groups a month idea is simply terrible.
 

j0n024

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I do a 5x5 split of the exact same routine just got out of my workout and those squats are killing me! but in a good way
 

Throttle

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your second option is useless, but shows that you need to hit the vault here and read up. stronglift's 5x5 will do the trick, or rippetoe's starting strength routine.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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