"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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-I put my career first.
-I wasn't looking for the right kind of guy.
So she made bad choices and now wants a back up plan to make sure she still gets what she always wanted(babies). She wants her cake and eat it too. She was swallowing dihk during her best years and now that she is nearing the end of the road she wants the "right" guy.
Hey baby here's what I want....I want a solid girl at home that takes care of me, cooks, does laundry, cleans, etc and a wild young p0rnstar I can bang on the side.
There's a reason the good Lord made women like he did. Stop trying to short circuit whats natural and things would normalize.
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A dating coach who fails to get a date is like a former lehman bros ceo giving financial advices.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Women should focus on finding a good man and having babies in their 20s. It was time for her to get real when she turned 20. Rollo Tomassi says women's peak is 23. Some say younger than that.
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Agree, as much as it sounds cruel thats exactly the number, at 25 they rarely are more attractive or healthy than at 23...I see the steps at 25-28-30-35 after that they are of no use at all.
No one calls nature cruel when we all admit that there could be only an alpha in the group and the others are subordinate yet when we state the same truth about women nature it seems like we are rebuilding gestapo.