"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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happyman2012

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Something ive always wanted to know:

When you are perusing and meeting lots of different girls, should you be open with them about this, or let them find out of their own accord? I am always open and say I do speak to and meet lots of girls and if they cant handle it then were probably not going to get on.

I do feel though that if you dont tell them when they do find out they will probably kick off and not bother with you again!

Thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm always VERY open right from the start. Like before things even happen with a girl I'll make sure to mention a date I'm going on next week, or something like that.

I do my best to ensure they know that they aren't my only option, mainly so that they don't get annoyed later, but also because it's just healthy that way. Why would a high value guy only be getting attention from one woman?
 
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