"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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spinning plates without getting busted in public

LongLostFriend

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"When you talk about girls to another girl, you don't have to give her all the details like a police report."

Definitely this. You will inevitably end up coming off as defensively explaining yourself (i.e. qualifying yourself to her) or giving the impression that you are more dedicated to one of the other plates (and thereby giving her the impression that she is "the other woman" when she is one of many others).

Walk the line between hiding it and divulging the details. That sweet spot works for "preselection" and gets her hamster trying to fill in the blanks you leave in a way that satisfies her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SgtSplacker

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LongLostFriend said:
"When you talk about girls to another girl, you don't have to give her all the details like a police report."

Definitely this. You will inevitably end up coming off as defensively explaining yourself (i.e. qualifying yourself to her) or giving the impression that you are more dedicated to one of the other plates (and thereby giving her the impression that she is "the other woman" when she is one of many others).

Walk the line between hiding it and divulging the details. That sweet spot works for "preselection" and gets her hamster trying to fill in the blanks you leave in a way that satisfies her.
Exactly, gotta know how to talk to girls. Rather than answer all their questions, tell them what they need to hear. What you want them to know. I have to check females all the time, girls always try to figure you out and put you in a little box with a label. You're gonna need a bigger box bi-tch... and more labels too!
 

buzzin_frog

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they are not plates...when you haven't banged them.

focus on getting laid first by them.....then plan your strategy

make sure to be far enough away so you dont bump into them

a good 35 miles would do
 
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